Tuesday, April 19
Not much new
Just sitting at work wasting time. I wish I had something deep and inspired to talk about, but its definitly not in me today. i'm thinking about how much homework I have to get done before 'big party weekend' at the Chalets in Hinckley. Bringing a lot of Stout friends to H-town. Why? I don't know. They all seem really excited about it. I'm like, greaaaat. Hinckley. Oh, well. I have to go home today after hopefully getting research done today and do the dishes, pick up, scrub floors, and vacuum. A week ago last wednesday Shaun promised to have the dishes done. Well, that didn't happen. So he promised to get them done on Monday. Guess what? Yep, you guessed it. He's doing them SINKFUL BY SINKFUL ('Hey, at least I'm getting them done, don't worry about it!' in an angry tone). Meanwhile, the counter by the sink is full of dirty glasses, the stove has dirty pots on it and there's random crap all around so the now dirty plates get to sit on whatever empty counter space we have. I GET SO ANGRY when I have to be the only one making sure the place is clean! Why should I be the only one? 'Well, I don't really like this place, so I don't take any pride in it and that makes me not want to clean anything up' Well, la di effing da. I can't stand the place worse than he can't. (Did that make sense?) I've been the last one to do any DECENT cleaning (read: using cleaning products, not just picking up). EVERY time. It just makes me so angry I want to cry. So I will be the one to go home, listen to 'I can't stand just sitting around here' and watch him go and then I get to clean up. EVERYTHING. There's red SOMEthing all over the floor. I KNOW I didn't spill it because when I spill stuff on the floor, I wash it up immediately. Especially seeing as how when that happened it was about, oh, 3 days after I scrubbed it on my hands and knees. AFTER sweeping and shaking rugs and scrubbing the shower stall. I get mad and leave it all sitting out, but the really disgusting thing is is that he just leaves it and he doesn't really care. So it always falls to me to clean everything up. His contact lens solution that he gets all over the counter in the bathroom is like CEMENT after it hardens. Like HE cares. He doesn't have to clean it up. So I mention it to him and I get: Oh, I'm sorry. While he's sitting on his ass, not even sounding like he's sorry or that he even CARES. I had to put all of the garbage in the garbage, tie the bag up and leave it out side of the front closet before he would even do anything about it. I mentioned Sunday night how it needed to go out and he agreed. He doesn't really have a lot to do on Mondays. But I wasn't really surprised when I got home and it was still sitting in there, stinking. HE grabbed it last night when we went on our walk. When he did he looked at me like he expected a thank you. Haha. Right. Anyways, sorry about the rant. I could go on forever and ever about this. But I'm cutting it off right here.
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Dana!
(I know you probably got my original post sent to your email...I just wanted to edit a few things here and repost!)
Do I ever relate to EVERY word you said about Shaun! I think Mark could top that though. There has been two heaping sinkfuls of dishes for the last two weeks and our kitchen just stinks! There is not a single open spot on the counter, so he's been clearing a 1'x 1' area when he wants to make something in there! But it's the only thing I ask him to do, so you'd think he could do it! AND in the bathroom, he gets #1 (AND #2!) on the toilet seat! And he doesn't even realize it or attempt to clean up! How disgusting is that?! He also does a little fake shower thing. When he is too lazy to shower, he sprays some Bath & Body works citrus basil on himself and comes to bed all stinky! I mean, I could go on and on about the gross things he does, let alone the not helping around the house thing! EW!! And then there I was going out of my way to always take care of myself (showering AND smelling good! :) ), doing his laundry, making his meals, cleaning the house--and for what?! UGH! And I also hear ya on the 'waiting for a thank you' thing! Mark would do something one time to my ten times and expect a huge 'THANK YOU!'. Whatever!
>>Haha...so you better get Shaun to change his ways before you marry or else you're in for a lifetime of unnecessary arguments! He should also realize that it's a bit ridiculous of him to assume you will continue to do these things as if you are suppose to! You're his fiance' NOT his mother! :)
Anyway, have fun in Hinckley this weekend! Sounds like you're going to have a good time! :)
so partying in Hinckley this wknd huh? fun fun, what's the occasion? Should be a change for ya not that exciting in the big ole hometown but something different. Well, hope ya have a fun time!
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